clubbing

well, for the second time, i went clubbing. i'm not sure if the first time counted, cuz there was barely anyone and i left early... so there was no dancing, just a few of us chatting...

i went to the blarney stone last nite for purple_shad's bday. y would i go clubbing? the meeting was at 8, and i didn't know the place, so i assumed it was a restaurant.... i found out yesterday afternoon that in fact, it was a pub. yes, i pulled another joyce.

my impression of the club: loud and dark. and it was packed with ppl in costumes cuz it was their halloween event... people who i knew that went was basically purple_shad, her bf, and tnt who came really late. there were a lot of ppl i dind't know though, so it was weird... i spent most of the time sitting there staring off into space while the loud music pounded into my ears. watchign people drink... wondering if i should try to strike conversation, but that already happened and didnt' quite work out... purple_shad's bf talked with me a bit, lol i wonder if that was under instruction? lol or maybe he just wanted to hook his friends up XD

it was actually quite interesting observing clubbing behaviour. at my table were mostly girls. then a white guy, who was from the group, came over and started talking to one of the girls. the he ordered a jug of beer, and paid for it. allowed all the girls at the table to have some. since he was sitting at the end of the table and it was hard to get out, the girl he was mainly talking with got him a glass. he was also significantly inanimated when the girl was talking with her friends. he also was able to get the other girls to pour for him when he was chatting with others.

o yeah, back to purple_shad's bf. so, his friends are "nice," "have a good job," and "would love to talk with [me]." mostly old roomates of his. then he introduced me to them. one of the guys took my hand, and blew a flying kiss at it. that was really weird. i would like to think that he's drunk. but i also don't remember which one of his friends did that. if he actually did kiss my hand, i woulda yanked it back so fast, and maybe he did feel that when he was lifting my hand and did that instead. let's assume he has had too much to drink. i hope u're reading this, purple_shad's bf. i

the good thing is after i got up and then came back, one of his friends was there and i had someone to chat with for a while. then everybody at my table went dancing and i was basically the only one left at my table so i had to turn to the other table for company. and i realized i'm such a tomboy that it's actually easier for me to talk to guys than to girls. my original table was full of girls, who knew each other ^^"

my view of what dancing constitutes has been shattered. as an observer, i watched everything. people would just move from side to side. honestly. maybe my view of dancing is more of the formal dance or something @.@ there is a set of actions instead of people doing whatever... @.@

to sum up my view of clubbing: lots of drinking, loud music, dancing, and yelling to be heard.